ARE LOVE STORIES ROOTED IN TRAGEDIES??
By the way i am not talking about love stories here but the possible sequale of events following a breakup.
Its a random thought because whenever my friends seek my advice on this particular issue i am usually tongue-tied.
Break-up has become a social issue these days, occuring too often, but obviously with different intensities. Sometimes its "Mutual" type, where both the parties are bored of each other and finally decides to end it amicably.
Another type is "Blaming" type, where it is usually accompanied by lot of anger, frustration, abuses and finally tears.( a real pain in a** types)
There is one more, breakup due to "Family" reasons, now here its usually the parents who are the guilty party.
But what amuses me is how conveniently we switch gears in the course of events, the person we promised to love for ever, suddenly becomes too distant. The whole journey and the moments spent together becomes hazy in our memory and the only thing we seem to remember is the tragic ending.
And then comes the role of a friend (usually me) on advising how to Get Over it. Weird it may sound, but how are we supposed to know the perfect solution!!
There is no home remedy for this, you sulk, you cry, you shout but that is all obvious isnt it!
We blame others, label ourselves as the victims of love, but are we really the only ones? (as i said its more of a social issue and self pity makes it more miserable)
So my advice to all my heartbroken friends is to give it time, shed all the tears and last but not the least dont hold grudges.."forgive and forget".
(if u know more type of breakups do enlighten me)
